This is a post of complaining/rambling/wonders of amazement I have towards people.
I have a few questions/comments/concerns....I have had a few incidents that make me wonder WHAT WAS THAT PERSON THINKING??? Apparently, pregnancy gives a person the right to just touch another persons stomach? Now, I am not talking about the family or friends of the pregnant lady but an acquaintance or someone not too close. I guess maybe this is just OK once someone is pregnant? Please do not touch my stomach, maybe when I am actually looking like I am harboring a baby but until then "please keep your hands to yourself."
The second thing that amazes me (and this I will say happens from people both close {as close as my own mother} to people I am not too close to) that assume that since I am pregnant I automatically am growing and my once just "a little too much fed" stomach is now a growing baby. NO, just because I am pregnant my stomach is NOT forgotten about it is still my "a little too much fed" stomach and someday I will start to show the signs of a growing baby.
Third, and then I think I am done, I am amazed at how many people, ummm....., feel free to just give advise. I should just say "thanks and I will try that" but I am a stubborn and know-it-all myself so I don't usually. I am just surprised how many people, mainly women, who give advise and even when I say "I've tried that, it didn't work for me, I wish it had like it did for you..." They still continue to preach to me!
Anyways, sorry for all this frustration it is a little held up and my frustration just sort of boiled over into this blog...
I have a few questions/comments/concerns....I have had a few incidents that make me wonder WHAT WAS THAT PERSON THINKING??? Apparently, pregnancy gives a person the right to just touch another persons stomach? Now, I am not talking about the family or friends of the pregnant lady but an acquaintance or someone not too close. I guess maybe this is just OK once someone is pregnant? Please do not touch my stomach, maybe when I am actually looking like I am harboring a baby but until then "please keep your hands to yourself."
The second thing that amazes me (and this I will say happens from people both close {as close as my own mother} to people I am not too close to) that assume that since I am pregnant I automatically am growing and my once just "a little too much fed" stomach is now a growing baby. NO, just because I am pregnant my stomach is NOT forgotten about it is still my "a little too much fed" stomach and someday I will start to show the signs of a growing baby.
Third, and then I think I am done, I am amazed at how many people, ummm....., feel free to just give advise. I should just say "thanks and I will try that" but I am a stubborn and know-it-all myself so I don't usually. I am just surprised how many people, mainly women, who give advise and even when I say "I've tried that, it didn't work for me, I wish it had like it did for you..." They still continue to preach to me!
Anyways, sorry for all this frustration it is a little held up and my frustration just sort of boiled over into this blog...
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